If He Does These 3 Things, — He's sure Gonna Cheat On You

If you remember one rule about cheating, let it be this: There are always signs in the beginning. What are those signs? How can you tell if someone you’re dating will one day cheat on you?

Watch out for these particular things, and save yourself unnecessary heartbreak.

Once you start dating someone, how much time does it take to see the signs?


While there is no perfect answer to this complex question, it is safe to say that you will have seen most of the personality traits in someone you’re dating after several months of knowing that person.

In other words, if you have been dating someone for four or five months or longer, it’s safe to say that you know that person pretty well. By the time you have dated someone this long, you have likely seen them in a wide range of circumstances and you have a sense of whether this is a person you can trust to be monogamous or not.

Sadly, many people continue relationships even after they sense their partner might be cheating, so the second purpose of this article is to tell you to trust your instincts and terminate the relationship soon after you sense potential trouble.

1. Past history of cheating.

ands down, the number one sign that your new date will cheat on you is if that person cheated in their past relationship. You may not find out this information early on, but it will often come out over time. Some individuals have cheated in the past and won’t ever do it again, but most people who cheated in the past will cheat again.

To feel convinced that someone won’t cheat on you even though they cheated on their ex, you need to have a lot of conversations on the subject and, ideally, you want to know that this person went to therapy or sought other help (self-help books, etc.) to deal with the underlying issues.



2. Going MIA for hours or being unreachable by phone.


If your date or new partner occasionally disappears during the day or evening and can’t be reached, this is a sign that he or she may be cheating. If he or she is unreachable for a couple of hours, that individual might be at the movies or the gym. But if someone is out of contact for a few hours — especially at night — it is a sign that cheating may be taking place.

When you talk to your new partner about the “disappearance,” be honest and share that these absences trigger anxiety or insecurity in you. More importantly, however, if this behavior becomes any sort of pattern, the real task you need to take on is to consider whether it’s time to end the relationship.



3. Flirting with others (right in front of your face!).

Who would do such a thing — flirt with someone right in front of their date? Millions of men and women! It happens all the time so be on the lookout for unbridled flirting right before your eyes.

If your date or new partner flirts with others in front of you, there is a problem. Odds are that this individual needs a lot of attention and that this individual will one day cross the line when you’re not present and shift from flirting to full-blown sexual contact.

If you want to have a long-term monogamous relationship, set a rule with your partner that neither of you will ever flirt with someone in front of one another. If your date takes the plunge and flirts in front of you, talk to friends about whether it is worth terminating the relationship. This kind of behavior is extremely difficult to change, so why not just invest in someone who doesn’t need that much attention from the start?


Simple reminders to take with you…

One of the best rules to remember when it comes to cheating is — wait for it — that your worries about cheating are probably founded unless you have a long history of paranoia with no justification. Most people don’t want to believe that the new person in their life is cheating, so having that sneaking feeling probably means that there really is something to worry about.

If you sense that the person you’re with is cheating on you, take good care of yourself and protect yourself emotionally. Detach a little from the relationship and take a lot of quiet time by yourself so that you can get in touch with your feelings and then make a sound decision about how to proceed.

By Dr. Seth Meyers

Now my question is
1. How realistic is Dr. Meyers thought to you ladies?
2. To the gents how faulty is this argument of Dr. Meyers.
Love to read your humble opinions.

People In These Professions Are More Likely To Cheat On Their Partners..

Long story short a survey has revealed that bankers are the most likely profession to cheat on their partners, but pilots, doctors and nurses are almost as bad.

As if we needed another reason to distrust bankers, it has emerged that people in the financial profession are the most likely to have an affair.

An intriguing and eye-opening study from Victoria Milan – a website for married and attached people who are searching for affairs – has ranked the nine professions that most lend themselves to infidelity, reports the Daily Mail.

Financiers, who already have a pretty bad rep, are the most likely to cheat, followed by pilots, air stewards and stewardesses.

Doctors and nurses are next on the list, which is followed by CEOs and secretaries – so basically all the cliches.

Other high-risk professions include athletes, musicians, DJs and models. So, it’s bad news if your partner was at the Olympics or is in a David Guetta video. 

There were also some intriguing insights into the mentality of someone having an affair at work. 

A whopping 65% of adulterous women choose to have affairs within the office, but 85% wouldn’t recommend sleeping with someone you work with. Oh, the regrets.

But only 10% said they were worried that an affair might endanger their career progression. The study didn’t say whether people felt affairs had actually helped them climb the workplace ladder. 

Another recent study from New York University suggested that the most dangerous ages for affairs are 29, 39 and 49 – as a partner reaches a millstone age and starts to reevaluate their life.

So if your partner is a 39-year-old banker or a 29-year-old model, you may want to pay them some especially close attention.

Note:

Disrupt Your Feed

It’s surely no coincidence that so many of the high-risk professions for affairs, like pilots and nurses, are also the most common sexual fantasies.

Drop This Fact: 36% of men and women have been unfaithful on a business trip and the average length of an affair is two years.

Culled: Askmen.uk

“I don’t experience orgasms” – Kemi Olunloyo says #StopFemaleGenitalMultilation

Kemi Olunloyo has revealed she is a victim of Female Genital Mutilation and she is not shy to talk about it.

Kemi in an interview with International Business Times, says her sexual life and mental health were affected after she was mutilated as a child.

According to her, the grave act was committed on her at age five when a family member took she and her sister to meet a man who placed them on his lap and “then cut part of our vagina and clitoral area off.

“There was no anaesthetic and a sharp razor blade was used. I remember my sister and I screaming afterwards,” she said. Adding, “We went home bleeding. Deep down, mom was not happy for some reason.”

Olunloyo told IBTimes UK after years of resentment towards her mother, she finally confronted her in 2012. “She burst into tears telling me that our late paternal grandma ordered my dad to have us do it.”

“It was a cultural barbaric act used to decrease the female libido. It caused me post-traumatic stress disorder for life. I don’t experience orgasm during sex and when I tried to promote the use of sex toys among Nigerian women, men started attacking me saying I was discouraging African women ‘from the real thing.”

“Sex is not important. I have no libido or urge to have sex and I’ve been celibate for 10 years. Millions of women in Nigeria go through this, but they cannot talk or be outspoken like me. It is shameful and a disgrace to them.” 

#StopFGM #WalkAgainstFemaleGenitalMultilation

Reason While the Oba of Benin and his wives covered their mouths during recent coronation ceremony

So on 20^th of this month, Oba Ewuare ll N’Ogidigan ascended the throne of his ancestors to become the 40th Oba of Benin, succeeding his late father, Omo n’Oba n’Edo Uku Akpolopkolo, Oba Erediauwa.

The photo above of the newly coroneted Oba puzzled many people with some social media users ridiculously assuming some obnoxious assumption, Well, why was the Oba covering his mouth? It was obviously a cultural act but what was the significance. Even his wives covered their mouths.

An indigene of Edo State, south-south part of Nigeria embarked on a fact-finding mission and got the feedback below:

(1) The Oba usually covers his mouth because when he talks he is the supreme authority and whatever he says is final.

(2) People talk on his behalf most of the time and whatever they proclaim becomes the law with immediate effect.

“A friend of mine who is a painter said he did a painting of the old Oba and it was rejected because it depicted him smiling. According to tradition, people are not supposed to see the Oba’s teeth so he doesn’t smile” the unnamed investigator concluded.

N.B There might be other reasons aside this, we will appreciate your comment and contributions to this  post.

 

“Early Morning Sex Is Beneficial To Health” – Nigerian Professor Educates

A professor of Biochemistry as enumerated the amazing health benefits of having sex first thing in the morning. Prof. Musa Yakubu of University of Ilorin has said having sex in the early morning lowers blood pressure and reduces risks of heart attack.

Yakubu of the Department of Biochemistry made the assertion in a paper, “Knocking Down the Barriers to Four O’Clock Activities and Reproductive Inadequacies”, presented at the 163rd Inaugural lecture of the university on Friday.

He said that having sexual intercourse, three to four times a week, was good for love life. He said

“Research has shown that sex boosts immune system by stimulating the body’s first line of defence and production of immunoglobulin A (IgA), against cold and fever,” he said.

Immunoglobulin A is one of the most common antibodies in the body system. Antibodies are proteins made by the immune system to fight bacteria, viruses, and toxins.

Sex, according to Yakubu also regulates menstruation in women by influencing the levels of lutenizing hormones that control menstrual period and promote better sleep.

He said sex also releases the feel-good chemical, known as oxytocin, which enhances closeness with one’s partner and makes people feel happier for a longer period of time.

“Lovemaking of about 20 minutes reduces 150 calories,” he said.

The professor of Biochemistry postulated that sex is the most powerful creative force given to human by God for pleasure and deep companionship.

Yakubu, however, noted that any marriage in which the man or woman could not enjoy sexual intercourse or satisfy their partner in bed was a dead marriage.

He said lack of sexual satisfaction had led to the collapse of many marriages in Nigeria, and urged couples to seek for solutions to the problem.

“Sexual and reproductive dysfunctions are common among men and women in Nigeria, which necessitates regular screening and check-ups,” he said.

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