“I don’t experience orgasms” – Kemi Olunloyo says #StopFemaleGenitalMultilation
Kemi Olunloyo has revealed
she is a victim of Female Genital Mutilation and she is not shy to talk about
it.
Kemi
in an interview with International Business Times, says her sexual life and
mental health were affected after she was mutilated as a child.
According
to her, the grave act was committed on her at age five when a family member
took she and her sister to meet a man who placed them on his lap and “then cut
part of our vagina and clitoral area off.
“There was no anaesthetic and a sharp razor
blade was used. I remember my sister and I screaming afterwards,” she said.
Adding, “We went home bleeding. Deep down, mom was not happy for some reason.”
Olunloyo told IBTimes
UK after years of resentment towards her mother, she finally confronted her in
2012. “She burst into tears telling me that our late paternal grandma ordered
my dad to have us do it.”
“It was a cultural
barbaric act used to decrease the female libido. It caused me post-traumatic
stress disorder for life. I don’t experience orgasm during sex and when I tried
to promote the use of sex toys among Nigerian women, men started attacking me
saying I was discouraging African women ‘from the real thing.”
“Sex is not important.
I have no libido or urge to have sex and I’ve been celibate for 10 years.
Millions of women in Nigeria go through this, but they cannot talk or be
outspoken like me. It is shameful and a disgrace to them.”
#StopFGM #WalkAgainstFemaleGenitalMultilation
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